As the milestone of turning forty approaches, I find myself reflecting on the journey that has brought me to this point in life. While it’s easy to perceive forty as a daunting number, I choose to view it as an opportunity for growth and embracing new adventures. Here are a few lessons I’ve learned along the way and the mindset I’m carrying into this next decade.

Lesson 1: Start that Business – Even if You Have No Clue What You’re Doing

One of the most profound lessons I’ve had in the last few years of my thirties is taking risks. The key? Ignoring the fear of the unknown. Starting a business without a clear roadmap can be intimidating, but the experience itself is a remarkable teacher. I’ve learned to embrace uncertainty, adaptability, and the importance of resilience. Through trial and error, I discovered skills I never knew I possessed.

If you had told me that I would have a blog, I would have laughed in your face. Yet, here I am, navigating the blogosphere. Entrepreneurship unearthed a passion for social media creation, and, surprisingly, I found myself rather adept at it. From constructing a website to maintaining a blog, I taught myself the ins and outs of several social media platforms. From the rapid-fire creativity of TikTok to the visually captivating world of Pinterest.

Lesson 2: Don’t Hold Space for People Who Don’t Add Value

While many people subscribe to the philosophy of forgive and forget or not holding grudges, I am the opposite thinker. Life is too short to surround yourself with toxic people. Family, friends, regardless of your status in my life, I have zero tolerance for toxicity. It’s not about holding grudges; it’s about preserving my mental and emotional well-being. This decade is about surrounding myself with those who uplift, inspire, and contribute positively to my journey. Liberated from toxic influences, I’ve created space for personal growth and fostered genuine connections.

Lesson 3: Go on the Trip

One of my greatest passions is travel, and I’ve made a conscious decision to prioritize experiences over possessions. Life’s too short to postpone adventures, so I’ve embraced the mantra – go on the trip. The moments spent exploring different cultures, savouring unique cuisines, and embarking on thrilling adventures are invaluable. I instill this principle in my 11-year-old son, who has become a seasoned traveler. Providing him the chance to explore the world, encounter diverse cultures, and make countless memories is among the greatest gifts I can give him.

Now days away from my 40th birthday, my family and I will be embarking on a post birthday tropical vacation. Planning fell on my shoulders, because if you know my husband- a planner he is not. Although my husband and son had the final say in our destination, the joy of organizing and preparing for the trip adds an extra layer of anticipation.

In less than a month, we’ll be basking in the sun, exploring new landscapes, and creating lasting memories. While work and financial responsibilities may always be present, the truth is, that time is the one commodity we can never replenish. So, whether it’s a weekend getaway or an international excursion, I’ve learned to seize the opportunity and go on the trip – because the memories made will far outweigh any missed emails or deadlines.

In conclusion, as I step into this next decade, I do so with a sense of empowerment, knowing that the best is yet to come. The lessons learned and the adventures ahead serve as a reminder that age is merely a number, and life is a journey meant to be lived to the fullest.